Ex h left in April after he had an affair. I am in maternity leave so not able to pay mortgage etc but he is high earner and covering bills. I feel utterly trapped and upset.
He is now with someone else and got a completely seperate life and home over 3 hours away. He still treats this house like it is his and regularly tells me that he pays the bills he can do what he wants. Today he let himself in. Wanted to stay here with the kids. I am ill with migraine like headache and sickness and need to have some time on my own - he ignored both mine and sister in laws requests for help to look after kids and turned up an hour late. I look after the kids majority of the time. he has them for 6 hrs every other sat and sunday. He has also just taken my car off me as his company pays for it. I feel utterly trapped. He won't have the kids overnight and says only way he will is if I fuck off out of the house as the house if for the kids nothing to do with me. He is so horrible to me, refuses to communicate or make decisions about important things - mortgage, Christmas, divorce and just either yells horrible things to me or winds me up and then turns in silent treatment.
What can I do to get off this horrible rollercoaster?
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Nomorepain · 17/11/2012 13:06
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