dh and I have been married 24 years and have always had a fairly unsatisfactory sex life. He says he had had a couple of sexual partners before me but he seemed pretty inexperienced when we married and I (wrongly) assumed we would learn to please each other over the years.
One of the things that has always puzzled me is that dh has never ever had trouble getting erections. But then he very often doesn't want to take things any further. I just don't get it because once I'm aroused there is no way I could just ignore it and go to sleep, or get up and start the day's work - but he can. I think he has incredibly low libido and he thinks I'm over-sexed. I don't expect him to want full intercourse every time he has an erection but i just don't understand how he can be so obviously aroused and yet not be bothered to act on it. Perhaps it's quite normal and I'm the odd one????
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hellsbells4 · 04/09/2005 18:10
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