For the last four years I've been working from home for my husband's business. It helps keep us all sane because it means I've got lots of flexibility and helps reduce his working hours. But I've also got a degree in psychology and 10 years experience working as a database programmer (BC!). So working part-time from my house entering spreadsheets and typing up newsletters is not exactly what I wanted to do with my life. Although it works for both of us at the moment we've talked a lot about the fact that it probably won't be forever and that at some point I would like get back into psychology or go back to uni or something.
Anyway, a few months back I started looking into Childline. I thought this would be something I could do that would really interest and challenge me and could be done evenings/weekends without interfering too much with kids and job and stuff. So I just started my training, which I am absolutely loving. And on a technical level DH is doing what I need him to do - ie looking after the kids when I'm doing the training - which to him is being supportive. Except every time I try to talk to him about it he only has negative things to say.
We did some difficult things in the training this week which I think I did pretty well at and ended up feeling really good about myself. I thought - 'Yeah, I can do this'. Then I come home only to have DH tell me that he thinks
- the whole thing is a waste of time because it's not a real job and
2)it's very unfair of me to want to do something for myself because it's inconvenient to other people!!
So now I don't knwo whether to be angry at him or sad that he doesn't understand how much this means to me or pissed off because he thinks he can just say hurtful things to me....