OK heres the deal - DH is a sahd (and v good one) and I usually work long hours etc. Am currently "between jobs" but have offers from 2 firms so likely to be back to work in early Oct, again long hours and commute. I also do all the housework so DH can focus on DS (his idea, I'm a muppet)
We haven't had a holiday since DS was born almost 2 yrs ago and this was the perfect opportunity imo. Just somewhere in UK, nothing major. DH doesn't want to go because he thinks it'll be too much work. His suggestion was that we went to MILs (who I don't get on with and who thinks am unnatural mother for working) which is as far from a holiday as is imaginable.
I'm worried that he's becoming insular - we do nothing together, he won't go out to eat because he says its not to his standard, never makes an effort to see his friends and sulks if I go out. I feel really trapped and frankly bored. He won't talk about it. Partly its exacerbated at the mo because I'm not working but its really depressing me.
What should I do?
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is DH losing interest in the world?
alicatsg · 31/08/2005 10:37
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