hi guys,
as you know i have met someone knew. He out did himself this weekend by taking care of everything, including my son while i was sick which no one has ever done for me. he is responsible, owns his house, is ambitious and bright and really nice to me. Problem is i am just not sure about him. He was really nasty to his ex and has admitted to staying with her for so long (1 yr 18 mts) because he couldnt afford to buy on his own, calls her fat and unnatractive and when her granddad died ignored her. I know she was possesive and is trying to be clever about staying in his life which winds him up but still! I have been with him loads and he is so patient and lovely to my boy yet doesnt want kids of his own and said he would leave an ex who got pregnant. He has been treated very badly by women but can a leopard change some very ugly spots. Its like there is a cold streak running right through him and yet he could not be more lovely to me. On one hand i think if he can do it to one................. but on the other i remind myself of just how nasty i have been in my past and how annoyed i would be if someone held it against me now. Maybe i am just being scared because i am behaving totally out of character spending lots of time with someone and letting them take care of me but i just dont know whats right. i cant afford to get hurt again. am i being paranoid??
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so unsure - sorry long!
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prettyfly1 · 29/08/2005 17:53
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