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Any tips on getting my DD to settle in her new school?

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emy72 · 23/04/2010 14:17

After a lot of heartache, we have suddenly been offered a place at our local village school and we have decided to take it. This means that my reception DD will be starting there on Monday. She hasn't been back from the Easter holidays yet as we have been stranded abroad due to the volcanic ash cloud so that is good as she has had a bit of a break. I know she will be devastated to change schools, so I am wondering how I can soften the blow. My questions are;

  1. do I let her go back and say goodbye to her friends and teacher? we will have lots of opportunities to see friends but not all of them etc will this be too traumatic?
  2. I have told her that she has to go to her local school now as we moved house and her old one is too far to drive (true anyway)
  3. any other tips?

    She hates change and has been there preschool and reception, so knows the school and kids very well.

    I would appreciate any tips to soften the blow/make it positive. I am delighted that I can walk her to school and hopefully offer her a better education but really worried of her reaction....

    Thanks for any tips xx
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Runoutofideas · 23/04/2010 16:35

Oh - that's a tough one. My initial reaction would be not totake her back to her old school to say goodbye, as that could be very emotionally stressful for her - maybe have a tea party or something with her closer friends instead?
Do you know any of the children she'll be starting with on Monday? Can you get them together over the weekend so that she's got a familiar face in her class? If it were my dd I'd probably try to buy her a new lunchbox, or school coat, or something special for her new school...
I think children are generally more adaptable than we give them credit for, so while you are understandably worried, I'm sure she'll be just fine. Good luck and let us know how she gets on!

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Runoutofideas · 23/04/2010 16:36

Could she start a dance club/gym class/swimming lessons with some of her old friends so she doesn't lose touch with them completely?

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