I am a state secondary school teacher although I have not taught in a school setting for six years. My daughter is in Year 1 at a state primary.
She enjoys school; she is happy at drop-off and pick-up time, she talks enthusiastically about the things they do in class, who she was playing with at playtime, what she ate for school lunch etc. She has a late August birthday and is almost the youngest in her year group. She rarely says anything negative about school.
Below is quoted the entire 'Social and Personal Skills' section of her first Year 1 school report, received today:
"X is a lovely girl with a passion for learning! She can be very independent although at times she demands a lot of attention from children and adults. She can still tend to get upset if she doesn't get her way. However, overall there have been fewer conflicts over friendships than earlier in the year."
DH is due home soon and will ask "what do they really mean?"
The Numeracy and Literacy sections are very positive and she has been set well chosen targets for each.
I think they mean she is an academically able little girl who needs to mature socially. However, although I'm glad to know 'there have been fewer conflicts over friendships than earlier in the year' it is in fact, news to me that there were any such conflicts! (Not mentioned at parent teacher evening last term, and my daughter has never said anything.) This phrase just seems a bit arbitrary, could it be statement bank generated? (I know statement banks are not automatically a bad thing as teachers can personalise the statements.)
I have helped out in class with reading fortnightly, since the beginning of the school year. I have noticed that at carpet time she sometimes does that maddening "Me! Pick me!" body language; straining upwards with her hand held high. A couple of times I've also seen/heard her call out without putting her hand up. Is this the kind of thing they mean? In which case, I can remind her how to behave at carpet time and expect her to grow out of it.
BTW I say 'they' because it's a job share; DD likes both her teachers and so do I.
It's parent teacher evening tomorrow, partly to discuss this report, what should DH and I be asking in order to support my DD AND her teachers?
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Year 1 School Report: is my DD a pain? Teachers decode please!
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PommePoire · 22/02/2010 16:53
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