There have been a few threads on this problem recently, so hope no one minds me posting with a similar problem but a slightly different question!
DD (yr 1) had a best friend (let's call her X, otherwise this post could get confusing!) throughout Reception, but is friends with a number of others that come on play dates etc.
However, since the start of year 1 another girl (Y) has been best friends with X, and has not been allowing X to play with DD at play time. X and DD still get on really well, and we've had lots of playdates with X to try to make up for the playground issues. However, it's still very upsetting for DD to be excluded from play, and she's very upset that X and Y are now "best friends". She's been in tears several times over half term about this. I've said that I can't stop X and Y being best friends, as sometimes friendships change over time. However, I do intend to speak to the teacher about Y excluding DD from playing with X (and apparently Y tries to stop DD from playing with others too) as I think this is now amounting to bullying.
DD is quite sensitive, and tends to burst into tears quite easily, which makes her an easy target for this sort of behaviour (I speak from experience here!) I would love to make her more assertive, and give her an answer to use when she is excluded (along the lines of "Well Y if you are going to be so bossy I don't want to play with you anyway"). Has anyone tried a similar tactic with any success? Any suggestions as to smart ripostes for a 6 year old to use?
I've thought about asking Y round for a playdate - would that be a recipe for disaster?
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DD being excluded from play (long, sorry)
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noneshallsleep2 · 22/02/2010 14:13
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