but please come and tell me that (if you think I am of course)
DS is 5.3 years old and in common with lots of boys is taking a lot of time to "get" reading. He LOVES books and we read to him a lot but he seems to be taking a really long time to GET letters.
For instance we spent some time yesterday working on the learning P. I would show him an P, say the sound and he would repeat it. I would then ask "So what is this sound?" and he would say "I've forgotten" This was repeated about 15 times. I didn't show him any other letters just P and he just couldn't recogniste it on his own.
When we are reading his books from school, I can see that he has remebered the words but can't read them. If I cover the pictures and point to a 3 letter word and ask him to read it or sound it out (with me reading it first of course) he just can't. Last week we had a book which mut have repeated the word pig 20 times. Each time I asked him if he could read that word (having told him what it was twice or more on the previous page) he just couldn't remember.
I know he is still young and I am hoping I am expecting too much but it is so frustrating.
Me (showing him a p" 'See this is Puh, Puh, You say it"
DS "Puh"
Me (immediately afterwards)- Still holding or showing him the same P "OK so what sound is this?"
DS "I can't remember"
Me "it's Puh"
DS "Puh"
Me "OK so what is this sound then?"
DS " I can't remember"
I swore I was not going to worry if ds didn't read early but are supposed to go through his school reading book each day and unless I try to get him to participate all that happens is I read him the words and he listens. He is making some progress I think but it seems so painfully slow.
I rememebr my nephew (in Italy) was reading and beginning to write within a term of starting school. I know because I saw him the Christmas after he started school and he was doing simple reading/writing homework (much to my astonishement as he had not been able to read or even write his name before starting school)
Admitedly he was older than ds (Italians start school later) but was the youngest in his class so was only about 7 months older than ds.
Maybe ds will improve considerably in the next 6 months but I can see that he really struggles with i. This is normal isn't it?
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Bumblingbovine · 24/01/2010 17:01
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