By virtue of my job and risk issues around DD going to local schools, I am likely to be able to get DD into the school of my choice when I apply for her reception class by December.
But DH and I are confused and unsure about what school is the best for her. We have the option of 2 (well more, but they are the ones we are undecided against).
Choice 1. School a little way away, and likely in a different direction to baby 2 nursery and work. It has Excellent Ofsted reports for everything apart from pastoral care, which is has a Good for. It is renowned for being the best school in the area, people move to the local catchment area in the hope of getting their children there. They usually fill all their places by the first criteria, and occasionally the second criteria. They have something like 250 applications for 80 places.
It is very academic. They are extremely strict on home work from the outset, they are against taking children out of school for any reason, and they make parents attend an 'interview' before children start school to stress the importance of following their rules. Rumours are that they withdraw children if they are taken out for holiday etc, and for too many sickness absences, although I do not know how true this is. They will not accept any children on reduced hours in the reception year, or only 4 days, either the child does all week or not at all. They push the children hard from the off.
They have no outside area for the children to play, other than a very small playground. But they do have access to an enormous park which I beleive is used.
They have the best academic results in the area. Well above average. Some statemented children, and children with english as their second language, average I think. They forcefully encourage extra curricular activities.
Choice 2. Has good as its minimum assessment in all areas apart from Pastoral which is gets Excellent for. It has a good reputation as being a good all round school, it has extra curricular activities which are encourage but not forced, has excellent anti-bullying policies, great special support for those who need it. Has a slightly higher than average intake of Statemented (is that the right word?) children and children with English as their second language. It has a good all round reputation for academic input, but is not a High achiever (is above average, or average). It is more local, still not within catchment area, within 30 min walking distance from home and more easily accessible to and from work and nursery.
So. Our dilemma is that DD is very bright, active, needs pushing a little, needs to be occupied. We are worried if we send her to school 2 she might not be pushed enough. But then, worried if we send her to choice 1, she might be pushed too hard, being only 4/5. She has plenty of time to learn and grow and be pushed and encouraged and we don't want to be pushy parents, but on the other hand, we want to recognise and harness any potential she has, and give her the best possible start to academic study.
Also, pastroal care, is IMO very important. It is not just about maths and english, but about the whole experience of school - making friends, developing hobbies, having fun. I am not sure whether fun is too high on the agenda at the first choice, but is that for us to sort out, outside school?
I do not want to miss out on the chance of sending her to the best state school in the area, but I do not want to send her there if it is te wrong choice.
(Oh, and also, we will be taking her out of school in term time in the first couple of years. We have family in USA and it is costly to travel as a family of 4 each year, so we will go when it is cheaper and convenient for the whole family. I also beleive at this age, travel and family are just as valuable learning experiences as formal schooling. Please do not slate me for this, as this is not what the thread is about. I am not asking for opinions on this, but it has an impact potentially on school attitudes towards us).
So, how do you decide where to send your child to school if you are lucky enough to have a choice?
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How to decide on the best school for DD - academic vs pastoral excellence?
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PavlovtheForgetfulCat · 04/11/2009 17:21
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