...does it affect your child's 'social life'?
I posted this in Chat at the weekend, and was directed here for more advice from the experts
I cannot do nursery school (attached to primary school) run on a regular basis as I work FT. Dh and childminder alternate drop offs and pick ups each week. I have done the school run about 5 times since September, and all the mums stand in line chatting. I'm good at making small talk, but it is clear they all know each other, so they are polite, but not friendly, if that makes sense?
dd (3.8) has been there since September and has not been invited to a single party or play date. I know there have been both of these as I know one of the mums from when our girls were little and we text one another occassionaly.
dh doesn't feel he can host a play date without me there, as he thinks other mums might feel uncomfortabe- I've no idea if he is right?
Are play dates and parties at this age determined by parents' friendships rather than the children? So will things get better? Or will dd be excluded further, seemingly because her mum doesn't make it to the school gate each time. (I say this because the nursery teacher says she is popular with lots of children.)
I'm feeling very bad about working at the moment after hearing of yet another party dd hasn't been invited to
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cupofteaplease · 18/02/2009 11:07
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