Hi
My 7 yo DS at lunchtime yesterday spoke to another child with whom he lunches everyday in terms that I am not happy with.
The other child (9 or 10) in question has some form of disability but I don't know the name of his condition. It is a growth problem and he is very short (but it is not achondroplasia). He is a lovely boy, everyone loves him and as far as I know DS has no problem with him.
However for some reason DS made some comments (I do not know the tone or the context) about his height... and went on to say if he was short it was his mumy's fault.... Of course I am livid... I don't know what made him say that and of course I am very unhappy about the whole incident. DS and I had a long chat last night, he understands that what he did was absolutely hurtful and un-called for. He has actually written all on his own a card for this boy. It's a lovely card and it's a proper apology. He had apologies aleady after the event of course.
After the incident (which the boy and one of his friends complained about - quite rightly) DS was very very sternly told off by the head. DD was in her classroom and said the teacher had to stop talking because they could hear the head shouting so loudly! The head can go off on one I know !
When I picked up DS I could see he was not right... she went to get me and made him tell me what had happened... he couldn't speak he was in tears.
Anyway she told me what happened, he didn't deny.
He then told me he didn't want to go to school anymore (normal reaction)... This AM he doesn't look quite right - DH noted that he looks broken.
Anyway... do you think the head was right to shout like this ?
He is also going to have lunch on his own today.
And of course I do not support what he did at all (he said to me mum I'm sorry I embarrassed you like this)... and I quite agree that this needs to be addresed... but should a head be that angry at a 7yo? What would you have done?
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pupuce · 14/09/2007 08:13
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