I posted here before about my slightly strange circumstances. In short.. My children spend a week with me then a week with their father, shared residency. I discovered last term they were late 2-3 days a week every week they were with him (never late with me). It's affecting one of our children who is anxious about being late, hates people "staring" at him, worries about it and it's become and issue when he is here with me too despite us never being late.
The Educational Welfare Officer noticed the lateness and became involved with the school and asked them to try and rectify it. The school spoke with my ex, have sent him two letters as well. My solicitor has said if it doesn't improve that I have a good chance of getting a Court to agree that the children need to be with me on school days to ensure their educational and emotional needs are met, but I need the school attendance reports showing the regular lateness to show to a a court.
I've had a meeting with the school last week who has said the lateness has greatly improved and it's now only once a week ish that he's late and that's shown on the lateness/Attendance records.
The thing is, I know it's not correct. My step children go to the same school and I'm there most days. I see him taking the children in late most days, yet he's not getting a late mark! The school policy is children arrive 8:50-9am. After 9am is marked as late. Yet I'm seeing him walking down the road at 9am or going in the school gates at 9:05 and it takes a few minutes to get round to their classrooms, sort bags and coats etc.
I was straight with the head and explained this. She said the teacher starts the register "soon after" 9am but it means that latecomers between 9-9:10 are marked in otherwise there would be lots of late marks and that looks bad on the school. She said the EWO reviews their books regularly. She said they lock the doors (no gate as such) from 0905 onwards but there are 4 doors so parents can usually get in one of them up until about 0910-0915 as it takes time to lock them all (rubbish!)
I'm so annoyed. It seems that the lateness is being "fudged" so make the school look good to the EWO's. What's the point of that. It totally ruins my point for Court too. I've this morning seen my son being dragged down the road moaned at and crying cause my ex couldn't get his arse out of bed on time. He walked past me gone 0905 so they wouldn't get into class til 0910 so ten mins late but his attendance report will not show a lateness I bet!
Shall I tell the EWO? Will they even care? Does lateness/attendance get taken into consideration for Ofsted reports etc?
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mumtobealloveragain · 14/01/2014 11:16
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