So we're in the second half of the autumn term and my DS is still not settling in Y1. He had a great start in reception last year, absolutely loved school, easily made loads of friends. Then they mixed the classes up and he is not with a single boy he was friends with last year. He's in a class of noisy children, while he is quiet, conscientious, sensitive and the youngest in the year. He cried for the first time at the end of last year when he realised he had been split up from his little group, and has been really unhappy since starting Y1. His teacher is lovely, he is engaged and doing really well in class, but the social side is so important and he says he doesn't have any friends anymore, which is breaking my heart. His teacher is keeping an eye on him and is being proactive about pairing him with boys she thinks he would get on with, but he still says there's no-one he wants to bring home for a playdate apart from his friends in the other class. We've also had some recent behavioural stuff at home - drawing and writing on walls/floors/furniture etc for the first time, which doesn't seem to be coincidental. I don't know if this will sort itself out as he settles into the year, or if there's anything else I can/should do. Does anyone have any experience of this? Any advice much appreciated!
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DS not settling in Y1 after a fantastic reception year.
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HowDelightful · 06/11/2013 13:00
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