Before the summer holidays I took 4 year old DS to the dr's as we were concerned about ADHD. The dr observed him for 5 minutes and rather speedily sent off a referral to CAMHS who refused to follow it up.
I contacted the school before he started and explained all of this and they reassured me that if they noticed anything they would follow it up with a SENCO.
So far DS has been sent out of 3 lessons that I know of, parents evening the teacher said he will randomly make stupid noises when others are talking, fidgets a lot and talks out of turn. She said his listening skills need a lot of work as well. He doesn't participate in PE unless he wants to and will just run about otherwise.
DS seems physically incapable of listening. He cannot do eye contact for more than a second. He can't focus on a conversation for too long and will forget almost immediately what has been said. He can however remember things that happened before his second birthday with alarming detail which is a bit odd!
I understand that he may just be naughty spirited but if he's not then I feel I need to get him support before he is just labelled a brat and left to flounder. He can read a bit, add and subtract numbers up to 20 and has remarkable logic and reasoning (nursery said this i'm not stealh boasting!) so I know that he's not behind yet he can't focus. He will do anything to avoid his reading book, homework or key words. The only thing that he will focus on is computer type games or art.
Can I ask that a teacher involves a SENCO? If they rule out ADHD then fine I can work with the school to come up with strategies to help his behaviour. If it is ADHD then they can support him to get the best out of school. I found an assessment for teachers online and have debated in desperation sticking it in his book bag with a note asking if she could fill it in for me to take to the Dr's and try and get an assessment actually carried out.
We thought DS would thrive at school. He loved nursery and learning until he got bored because he had done everything. Now he's telling me he will be sick tomorrow and should have a day off school. He hates it and I'm rambling now out of sheer confusion as to how to help him!
If anyone can advise me then I would be forever in your debt!
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Looking for some advice from teachers RE: DS, possible ADHD and issues in class
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Kyrptonite · 21/10/2013 11:56
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