I am lucky to have a choice of primary schools (I think I have a choice). I have got my first choice but now I don't like it and I want my second choice. I just want a bit of help establishing whether it's worth the hassle of trying for it or if (like dh I just accept what we have and be thankful) a sort of wwyd.
we moved house just before the deadline for admissions from an outer london borough to a new lea outside london. dd2 y3 got a place in the closest school (sch A) around jan 20th. Dd1 y5 got a place just after half term in a school 15 mins walk away (sch b) so has been there about 5 weeks.
I applied for first choice A and 2nd choice B for ds1. Ds1 has a sibling link to both schools now. I have never met head for school A, it is a smaller school and is placed in a very residential area, I haven't really started saying hello to parents despite doing school run twice a day, it feels very homely and when you are there it feels like nothing else exists - really separate from life. dd2 had a detention in her first week because she handed her homework in at lunchtime instead of the morning, this really unsettled me. Head is in late 50s and has only ever taught at this school which worries me.
school b, the head showed me round, he answered 3 calls from me in the couple of days before dd started. the school actively involves itself in the community, it is bigger intake and slightly more diverse. school gates are far more welcoming, I dont feel like such an outsider. dd is extremely happy. in the 5 weeks she has been there she has participated in a dragons den whole school maths week, a day at the local high school for drama and a whole week of cycle proficiency. she is about to go on a 5 day residential trip, I am so impressed.
sch b is a separate infants and junior. sch a is primary. Initially I reassured myself that the younger 3 kids would not be at school together if I chose sch b and sch a is so much closer that school a was better but I feel so uneasy about the school. I have accepted the place and there dont seem to be waiting lists here. I cant work out if my concerns about school a warrant the hassle of navigating the appeals system. I wish I hadn't seen school b then I would have been happy with original choice but I also think I'm really lucky to have a choice for ds1 and ds 2 who will each get 7 years at each school.
Does anyone have an opinion on whether I'm being superficial or have valid concerns and how difficult appeals are?
I think the teaching is fine at A, it is more social side and attitudes my children may adopt from 7 years there that I am worried about. If you got this far thanks, if you reply even better, has been useful to write this down.
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manitz · 19/04/2013 06:32
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