We chose our boys school at 3 for nursery. Now DS1 is 9 and DS2 is 6. Current school is very academic and seems the next three years hysteria sets in about the 11+ but more as that relates to the entrance exams for senior schools. Many parents seem to tutor their kids most Sundays etc etc. So....we didnt sign up for that either for us or for our DS's. DS1 hates tests under pressure. He does ok at school but already seems to crumble under pressure of being drilled in maths.
So, found a great school that is highly regarded which takes children from 7 right through to 18. All the same great facilities, sport, music etc (which both boys love). Exams would be end March this year for DS2 to go at 7 (admissions say he'd need to pass an exam but if he did he'd be in). DS1 has missed the entrance exam for Sept but she said their is a second exam to be waitlisted. So if he passed there are no guarantees and we'd have to go through the test again next year. Of course neither may pass as DS1 hates exam conditions and DS2 is the youngest in his year BUT I still feel that we are saving them and us from three years of pain from 10-13.
What would you do....give it a go and deal with the scenario of one getting in and the other not if it arises?
Also, how would we explain all of this to them when they love their current school, are thankfully oblivious to what they might face in the next few years? I don't want to scare them about their current school. Also if they don't get in (or one does and the other doesn't) what would we say and do? Think we would have to let them see some entrance exam type papers so they weren't blindsided so that would mean us having to do a little practice in the next few weeks so doing exactly what we wanted to avoid - putting pressure on them so young.
Hate this.....wish I could turn the clock back and make a better decision back then......
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Thinking of changing DS's prep school to avoid the pressure of the next three years exams....how do I minimise the impact on the boys?
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robin3 · 16/01/2013 12:13
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