My kids play with absolutely nothing, and I'm worried I need to be encouraging otherwise. Ds is 10, he has Lego, knex, cars, etc... All in tubs under the bed. He plays xbox, reads books, watches YouTube videos... Like most of his friends. I'm not horrifically concerned about him - he's always been the same, he does have healthier interests too (eg he will happily help cook, he wanted a new bike instead of anything electronic for his birthday, plus we go out a lot so he's not just indoors) but I just feel there could be more I should be encouraging.
My dd is 8 and loves toys... Till now. She has the doll/pet shop/sylvanians mix that her friends do, but she also has to have my attention, constantly. If I sit and play with her, all is ok - but to be honest that can't happen as often as we'd both like. If she has friends around she will do crafts, or play outside, but again it's not as often as she'd like. She never touches toys when she's by herself - and will just go watch tv which she never used to.
I'm concerned the issue here is she has too many - I've suggested to dh we take out nearly all bar a stackup of mixed bits, and give her a tub each week that changes - maybe the extra floor space and less options will encourage her?
Has anyone got any advice or experience please? I know both my children are perfectly happy when they have my or dh' attention, but it's when they don't that they seem to unable to play independently and I'd love to encourage it. I know not allowing electronics would possibly help but I've done this previously 'tv free weeks' no consoles etc, and they end up viewing the activities as a punishment and the electronics as a treat/reward.
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KahlanC · 13/07/2014 17:20
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