Ds is a young year 6 (he's 11 in August) In September he'll make the move from our small village primary to the large secondary school 10 miles away. Although several friends are going to move to the same school he is a sensitive boy and is fretting about the change. He's started feeling very wobbly about it which is expected in many ways but this is much more so than dd who moved up to the same school two years ago (restless at night, moody, weepy, bedwetting etc) His main friend is not moving to the same school which is upsetting but he seems to be happy and comfortable about the friends who are going with him.
Does anyone have any tips for easing the transition for a sensitive boy?
Main factors he worries about are -
He's physically small (just a bit behind with a growth spurt compared to his friends who are several months older) and skinny therefore he worries about defending himself against bullies. Obviously we hope he won't need to defend himself but this is a very real worry to him.
He'll be travelling to school on a bus with some boys who moved up from our primary school last year who were mean to him at primary school.
His work won't be good enough (he does have shocking handwriting!)
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wellies · 18/06/2014 11:04
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