I need some mumsnet guidance as I think I am going about this all wrong. My DD is in year 5, aged 9.5 and is struggling with the whole friendship thing. She is I think rather immature compared to her peers in her behaviour and conversation.
She is very clingy to her best friend who is on the grown up end of the spectrum but DD doesnot get this - she just gets upset that best friend is ignoring her - Im sure she isnot but wants to hang with the more mature kids. As her class is so small there arent that many other girls to befriend as the other girls stick in their well formed cliques. DD has good friends out of school, although its often the younger sisters she gets on with better and she does brownies so had other friends which is good. I jsut want her to be happy at school and stop asking to leave as everyone was mean to her - her interpretation - mine is that due to her immaturity they prefer to play with other kids which is a part of life so she needs to get on with it.
Sorry rambling.....my questions are 1) What can I do to help her mature in social skills and as a person? and
2) how should i respond to the everyone hates me, they are all in the wrong and I hate them all tantrums - its never her fault or anything she has done or can change.....
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How to help DD aged 9.5 mature in her handling of friends and in herself perhaps?
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PimmsOclockisNow · 23/09/2013 18:37
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