Really struggling, ds generally had rather challenging behaviour for years and has ADHD & dyspraxia diagnosis. He will not listen to me at all now, every conversation a fight, he negotiates to do something different or later. He calls me a bully for withdrawing privileges or for asking him to think about what he's done wrong. Never ever seems to think he should behave better. He will not walk dog, pick up own clothes, eat breakfast do hmk get changed etc etc without huge protest, challenge, delays. He will not ever help even with the most basic stuff. Complains about toast temperature, shoe fitting etc etc, his younger sibling getting v upset with it all. Dh & i huge marital difficulties so aware he's probably acting out. Tried reward charts, 123 magic, psychologist ritalin fish oil exercise talking family conferences etc etc.
School report laziness and attitude problem esp with female teachers.
Dh rather in denial. No school or external support at all (overseas). Help pls i cant cope with him!!
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Salbertina · 21/08/2013 08:02
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