My 12 year old has been a little shit all day today. I am being awful with my language because I am at breaking point and have lost any kind of control over him. He hasn't done a single thing I have asked him too all day and has been taking the piss out of me all day. He has been mean to his siblings, has scratched one of them, shut the cat in his room according to DS2 and I just don't know what to do any more. I feel like crying. I feel like walking out. I know I am fucking up and I just can't live like this any more. Tablets will not help so please don't suggest that.
Just asked him how he felt about the way he has behaved today and he said it was unacceptable. He said he was angry because we took his lap top off him. We did this as a consequence of his bad behaviour.
So, since I am meant to be the adult and he is a child and I have clearly reacted all wrong to him all day as I had no idea he was angry what should I have done?
I told him he should have said to us he felt angry and wanted some time alone and we would have respected that but he started arguing with me so I said to go and find something to do.
THE above was posted yesterday in MH.
Today has carried on much the same with him making fun of me being in pain and making threats to push me and telling me to keep an eye on my lap top (He has lost his.)
Took my younger two to my in-laws after lunch as they have had enough and deserve a break and since we have been home he has cleaned out the Guinea Pigs and is now making a den in the garden.
Meanwhile I feel like a dishrag, still in pain and just wonder where my sweet lovely little mate has gone.
Also he teased the cat by holding his empty food bowl under his nose so he thought he was getting fed. DD at tears at this.
He has just come in from the garden and is talking normally.
I wonder if it is like PMT when they start growing up but he doesn't have the ability to stop. I take stuff for PMT. Is there any thing for pre-pubescent boys??
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MissStrawberry · 13/08/2013 16:26
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