My DD is 9 and in year 4. She has been best friends with a girl for the last 3 years but in the last year another girl has joined them to make a 3. There has been issues along the way but all seemed ok most of the time. However for the last 3 weeks her best friend is kind of ignoring her and saying things like "what are you wearing" and today "no one likes what you are wearing". They seemed to have made a two and are leaving her out. When I went to collect her today the other two girls were stood outside ignoring my DD.
Her best friends mum is sort of a friend so I have sent her a text to say can we have a chat. I can appreciate that the other two girls dont want to be a 3 with DD anymore but those horrid comments are upsetting and not necessary.
I am upset for DD and she seems a little lost. She has now gone back to a friendship she has in year 1 with two other girls who have always been her good friends.
I have texted this girls mum to say can we have a chat. But not really sure what to say. Just cannot believe that this lovely girl that was her best friend is being so hurtful to her. So sad.
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mumof2monsters · 10/06/2013 16:50
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