I will try to keep this short and to the point because it is a bit long winded.
Me and my friend have DD's who both love to dance. Her DD is 12 and mine 11. They have always been friends and have spent a lot of time together. They go to 3 dance classes together and we share the driving. For the last 3 months the 2 girls no longer get on. The other girl says nasty things while they are dancing. Says that mine is doing it wrong and is in her space etc etc. It's all just little remarks but getting my DD down. So much so they she ended up crying on Tuesday and I had to go and speak to the ballet teacher the next day. The teacher has said she will talk to them again and she knows it is the other girl. She has said that if it happens again, they won't be able to do the show.
I texted my friend and asked her to speak to her DD to tell her all this and she hasn't bothered to reply. Basically, both girls need to move on from all of this and get on with their dancing. The other girl has a history of this kind of behaviour with another girl and I really think she doesn't know how hurtful she is being.
It is my turn to take them tonight. Should I pull this girl to one side and have a gentle chat? I want to make her realise it has to stop. I don't think her mum has bothered to talk to her. Her mum thinks it will sort itself out but I am not prepared to have my DD upset anymore.
What would you do?
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muttonjeffmum · 17/05/2013 13:00
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