Hi, I have come on here because my half-sister is 12 and starting to go through puberty. Her mum is a relapsed drug addict and alcoholic who she hasn't seen for 3 years, so my dad has full custody. Although my dad tries to talk to my sister he's hopeless really, he has no experience with these matters (it was my mum who I learnt about everything from) and my sister just ends up getting embarrassed and telling him to shut up (which he does.) I feel like it's now my job to talk to her about periods and boys and safe sex etc, but I'm really not sure how to go about it. I'm taking her to get her first bra on Friday, but I haven't told her yet as I've tried to before and she point blank refused and went bright red. Can anyone give me any advice? When I got my first bra ( I was 10 I'm 19 now) I remember being really excited and asking my mum if I could get one, so why won't she let me take her? Also does anyone know where is a good place for first bras? I went to tammy girl but it was awful and I think it's closed down now. Any advice would be great, thanks :)
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