Help! or advise please!
A long story .....but to cut to the chase ....
DD (12) in year 7 of secondary. Almost immediately after starting secondary DD was in a class away from her friends and hooked up with another girl known to her from primary. The two became unseparable.
After a sleepover incident in October last year the two fell out and 'broke' friends. That is when the nightmare started! After a couple of months of incessant low level bullying by this girl and us trying everything to stop it - we decided to ask the school to move DD to another class - which they did.
Things are better now - DD is back with her origninal friends and doesn't encounter this girl much.
However she does still suffer extensively from this girl 'bad mouthing' her to other boys and girls in her year. This consists of total lies and exaggerations but she is quite convincing. This girl is what I would call 'a leader'. My DD is a 'follower' in life.
School cannot do anything about this as its minor I know and they have already helped greatly with changing classes and self help techniques for DD.
The mother of this other girl is a piece of work! She believes her daughter would never do/say any of the things that she has done - despite their being witnesses! She is not reasonable and is much like her daughter.
It appears to have got to a stage now where I need to do step in.
My husbands idea is to knock on this girls door and confront her mother in a firm (but non aggresive way). We are hoping this would 'bring the issues to her door' so to speak. If it was me I wouldn't want this on my doorstep.
We can't think of anything else to do to be honest.
Any ideas appreciated.
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nortonmumoftwo · 08/05/2013 09:30
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