Am I being silly to think that DS (aged 11, year 7) should have called and asked rather than going straight to his friends house and getting his friend to call?!
His friend lives 20 minutes walk away and popping to our house on the walk home would have taken him an extra 5 minutes on the way. He doesn't have a mobile, one of the reasons I'm not keen on teen/tweenagers having them is because they use them to manipulate their parents ie. the phone call saying can I stay out and you feel you have to say yes.
Should I tell him that next time he stops by on his way/that he should be the one calling/that he shouldn't go there and then ask? I have no issue with him being there (his friend is lovely and I know he's safe/happy there), plus we have encouraged him to socialise outside of school, just feel this is the wrong way to approach it...
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JandT · 08/03/2013 15:48
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