My dd is in Year 7 and ever since I can remember, she has been completely disinterested in reading, particularly for English classes but really in any subject or walk of life where reading texts is unavoidable. She says all books are "boring" and the only books ever to engross her are The Hunger Games which she absolutely adored. Despite my encouragement and help, she resolutely refuses to pick up another book, ever.
Her primary teacher told me that one problem she has is she always has to understand every word she reads and if she comes across something she doesn't know, it blocks her from continuing.
This is now causing issues in senior school and despite the efforts of her extremely patient English teacher and several meetings between us, we have collectively been unable to resolve the problem which I know will affect her later in life. Her teacher is very frustrated because apparently dd "just gets everything" without real effort but is reluctant to prove it.
She is extremely hormonal and is in fact having a period every two weeks resulting in her becoming uncharacteristically headstrong with her teacher and I and to be honest we're at a loss what to do.
I should say, she is naturally bright and excels at all scientific and mathematically based subjects but hates the humanities such as history, RE as there's lots of reading!! Her test results are testament to the fact her attainment is excellent but her effort is lacking. She never, ever revises for a test but always comes out with acceptably good results.
The only thing holding her back from moving into the top set for all her subjects is the endorsement from her English teacher which she won't give until things improve. I would have thought this would be a great incentive for her to be in a class with the top 20% of her year but all I get from her is she's ok where she is.
I should say, I'm definitely not a pushy parent and believe in kids being happy at school, not just focused on academic attainment. All I want is for her to overcome this fear of reading, find some books she will enjoy and push herself to do her best.
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What's causing 11yo fear of reading?
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ItsRainingOutside · 22/02/2013 17:40
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