My daughter is 11 - in Yr 6 at school. At the moment she seems to be losing interest in everything she used to enjoy.
She gave up swimming club about a year ago. She stopped an after school sports club last term. She has stopped doing lunchtime activities at school. Now she has decided she wants to give up piano. The only reason she gives is "they're boring" or "I don't like it".
She's been playing piano since she was 8 and I must admit I'm really gutted this time. I think it's been great for her confidence to have something she's doing well at outside of school. Not sure why I'm taking it so hard. I'm trying to tell myself it's only a hobby and it doesn't really matter, but just can't help feeling really sad about it.
She is also losing interest in school work and while she's not yet rebellious enough to refuse to do homework, she always does the absolute bare minimum in about 5 minutes. She just wants to read, go on the computer or watch telly.
Please tell me this is normal pre-teen behaviour! Do they normally start up having enthusiasm for things again in secondary?
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Vicky13 · 06/02/2013 23:04
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