My dd aged 11 doesn't seem very passionate about anything ... She doesn't really have any hobbies, she likes reading but won't stretch herself with "better" books, only reading rubbish teenage fiction. She is learning to play an instrument but won't practise at all, doesn't seem to care much about it, although she wanted to learn and does seem to enjoy the lessons (once a week). She has a hamster and fish but doesn't check they have food and doesn't even look at them really. She only does homework when asked and to the bare minimum it seems. She's on As and Bs at school in year 7 but is fairly quiet we think (based on what teachers have said now and in the past). She has friends and is not unhappy at school.
I'm finding this very frustrating. She doesn't do her chores unless nagged repeatedly, and not even then somtimes, even though she has the opportunity to earn extra pocket money for doing more.
I am worried she won't do as well as she could at school, because she can't be bothered to do more than the bare minimum. I want to fire her with enthusiasm for school, work and hobbies but don't know how.
I'm not a pushy parent, I just want her to make the best of her life and school and have a good time too.
I should maybe add she is like an only child as her siblings are much older and no longer live at home.
Anyone got any tips or been in a similar situation?
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baahhumbug · 10/12/2012 11:18
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