DD 11 nearly 12 is becoming a right little madam.
So far she has destroyed a phone and ipod touch - and now wants the lastest versions instead
Lost her dinner card for school twice
taking all her savings into school
spending dinner money thats supposed to be on the card in the poxy shop instead on sweets
Is getting detention for not doing homework and not writing it down in her diary despite me looking at it every night and making her do 30 mins on her project each night
constantly fighting/shouting at her brother (9)
I'm getting nothing but shrugged shoulders and attitude even when talking to her nicely
The only time she is even halfway decent is when she is asking to go to the shop, wants something or wants to know something or knows she is getting something she wants.
Fallen out with almost everyone we know because of her attitude and rudeness
I'm forever damage controlling.
Lying (this is the one that's getting to me most) about the most stupid things....ie. big bag of sweets in her bag that were in the fridge, she doesnt know how it got there. There's 3 of us in the house, it wasnt me or her brother I'm with him constantly due to his SN, but she's still adament it wasnt her.
I really dont like her much at the moment. Help me, please tell me this is all normal.
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BollocksToKarma · 25/10/2012 17:08
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