Because the pre school leader says that she isn't. She started in Jan and is doing 2 morning sessions a week. I have been settling her into each session (as parents are encouraged when they start). She has gradually got happier (or more resigned!) to me leaving and got on with an activity. To start with I came back towards the end of the 3 hour session to collect her as I knew she would get tired. Then I did a week of staying with her for the last half hour, then the next week picked her up at the end of the session. Then she was ill and missed a week. First session back last week I was told she had been miserable and asked to be picked up a lot, and they had nearly called me to get her.
Then the next session I was told there needed to be a settling in plan, and that I would need to stay with her for the whole session. I was quite taken aback as I feel that she's made progress at separating from me, and seems to understand that I go for a while then come back. I think she needs to learn to do without me for that time and build a relationship with the pre school teachers so she'll go to them for reassurance. I can't see how she's going to do that if I stay. I did that day and she clung to me throughout the session. I could 'hide' in another room and pop out when she needs me, but that way I don't think she'll learn to trust the teachers. Not sure what to do for the best, but nursery seem to think I should stay with her.
BTW she's just 3 and not my first, but didn't have problems with the others.
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Is my dd settling at pre-school?
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pannetone · 21/02/2008 21:12
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