I inadvertently let slip one day that my DD had had a bout of diarrhoea - nothing infectious, just her usual "toddler diarrhoea", more like runny poo with full bowel control (sorry!) - got worried that her child would catch it and complained to staff that my DD should not be at preschool.
The principal then called me in after preschool and asked me about this. I said it was just "toddler diarrhoea" and had had this confirmed by a doctor.
The principal said "someone" had complained and so she had to investigate. I asked who it was but she wouldn't tell me due to confidentiality rules. She then (presumably) tried to reassure the other mum that everything was OK.
I am now racking my brains trying to remember who I was talking to - why couldn't she talk to me in person? It makes me feel uncomfortable when I meet the other mums and everyone is being nice as pie on the surface.
I'm now wary of having any conversation with the other mums and particularly keep quiet where health is concerned.
I agree with confidentiality but I don't like it when someone I see everyday goes behind my back ... is this a normal situation in preschool?
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Confidentiality and other mums "going behind your back" at preschool complaining to staff
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Lulushmulu · 15/01/2008 19:45
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