Dd2 goes to a very small pre-school. It's part of our local community and all the staff have dcs at the local school and live in the village. Some mornings dd2 plays with a little girl when we are waiting to go in and dd2 talks about her a lot at home. Her mother is one of the pre-school teachers. On Friday I was waiting with someother mums to pick up when they started talking about this little girl's birthday party, and one little girl who has only just started had been invited, but not my dd. From what I can gather the rest of the pre-school has (about 10 dcs). I've never been made aware of any problems with dd2 and I thought me and the mum got on okay, although she did have a go at dh when he helped one day for taking dd2 to wash her hands.
If it was another mum I'd be miffed but put it down to my face not fitting. But this is a staff member of a very small pre-school and I am wondering just what her problem with my dd2 is, and how this might be affecting how she gets treated when I am not around. Dd2 and this little girl will be in the same class at school and our older dds are also in the same class.
What should I do? Should I have a word with the supervisor? If it gets out that I've made a complaint I will get snubbed in the village as she is very popular. Should I just let it go?
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What do I do - a member of staff at dd2's preschool has excluded her from her dd's party
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startouchedtrinity · 15/09/2007 13:45
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