My DS is 4.6. He has attended nursery for around 10 months. I did send him late because he just didnt seem ready and we do a lot of crafts, reading, cooking etc at home. To me he seems very bright. However his pre school after about the first three weeks always seemed to have a problem with him whenever I picked him up. The main one seeming to be that he had no interest in sitting with the group for stories or group play etc. Not for one minute have I ever had any concerns about him or his development. He knows his alphabet both to read and the sounds of the letters, can count to one hundred and beyond, nearly tells the time, knows days of the week, months and seasons can add up simple sums, knows all of the continents on a world map and a lot of the countries too, knows all his shapes and has done since he was two, not just squares and circles but diamonds, triangular prisms and spheres also, knows all of his colours including the not so common ones like lilac or beige and can speak a small amount of Spanish. The reason I am listing all this is that I received his report at the end of last term and it was like reading about a different boy. I wont go into detail because it would make this post too long but eg as far as they were concerned he did not know his alphabet, could count to ten - with prompting!! and did not know his shapes and thats about it......
I was staggered, it was like reading about a different boy. I have since found out that they did not allow him to participate in sports day and when I picked him when they were practising for an assembly he was sat alone at the side of the hall not allowed to join in. Towards the end of term they told me that he was becoming aggressive and throwing cushions at other kids at this point I was really irritated and showed it because my son is the least aggressive little boy I have ever known and I said so. They agreed with me and said they were surprised he had done it too. They say he is not disruptive to others at all but just wants to do his own thing.
In short the child they were telling me about was unrecognisable to me. After a few meetings I just found that all I was saying in these meetings was "Well he's not like that at home!" as though I was in complete denial.
Anyone else had this? I don t want my son to be labelled especially when they just don t seem to get him at all. My husband told them he had never seen such a woeful attempt at relating to a child by those who call themselves professionals. Don t want to be in dinial but I just can t see the things they seem to.
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Amethyst8 · 02/09/2007 15:24
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