DS was in the kitchen with me the other day when he began muttering to himself.
He said 'Go to the quiet room. You're ruining it for the other children. I shall have to tell your Mummy. Stay there and be quiet'.
I asked him who had said these things to him and he told me it was his preschool teacher.
I was spoken to a couple of weeks ago about him having hit another child, and also refusing to 'join in' with something or other (not a major crime surely) and had a word with him, and he's been Ok since...however I do remember the teacher mentioning he had had 'time out'.
I didn't ask what this was at the time - I assumed it was as I had previously witnessed - one of the adults takes the child out of the room, holds them, talks to them until they feel it's Ok to rejoin the group.
But when I asked DS (who is only just 4) what had happened, he said they had put him alone in the quiet room, locked the door, no one was with him, they wouldn't let him out and he was crying. He also said no one came to let him out.
How would I go about checking this out with the preschool, without sounding accusatory - I really am a bit worried about what he told me although I realise he could have been making bits of it up!
Does anyone know what the usual guidelines are /procedure regarding 'time out'?
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Preschool workers - can you tel me what is 'Time out' please?
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flightattendant · 29/05/2007 08:30
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