I know that DS needs to learn to stick up for himself, and I can't go fighting his battles for him all through life!
He's only 3 though, just started a playgroup around the corner (literally) from us and loves it, except comes home telling me how this boy has swung off his arm and pulled him over, or he's hit him. This boy is rough with most kids, as I saw it for myself when I took DS for his look around.
On collecting DS today I saw this boy physically move DS by grabbing his t.shirt. (and DS is not on the small side) It took me to shout "hey excuse me!" (no not the best thing, but first polite thing that came to mind) before one of the playgroup carers pulled this child off DS.
I've said to DS that he has to say very loudly "ouch! You're hurting me!" or something along those lines. I don't know if he does or not.
So basically, do I change DS's 2 mornings a week to days when hopefully this boy isn't there, or do I carry on with his days and toughen him up? After all, I can't rush to his rescue everytime and chances are there'll be the same kind of kid in his class at school.
BTW, this boy is 4, but missed the last school intake, will he go to school in January by any chance?
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mumatuks · 23/11/2006 13:37
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