Dd's in the nursery of a primary school, hopefully starting in Reception next year there. It's a busy inner city London school with a very good reputation.
There are 2 nursery teachers, 2 nursery nurses and a few other support staff here and there, and 57 children - 25 part time, 27 full time. So it's always very bustling.
The two nursery teachers are lovely and one of the nursery nurses is a bit stressed but generally ok. The other nursery nurse is a bit of a dragon to be honest. I can't think of a single time I've seen her crack a smile, she's a very big woman (about 6,2" and heavy set) and is quite intimidating to the kids. I'm not alone in thinking this, I've heard lots of mums mention how miserable she seems.
What troubles me is that she seems to play odd kinds of 'power games' with the parents / children. For instance at pick up time the other day I was the first mum through the door and she refused to look at me and call out dd's name to stand up. So I waved my hand at her and she said 'I already said dd's name 3 times' which was a blatant lie as I wouldn't have missed it and dd was watching her intently waiting for her name to be called. A couple of people behind me looked at me and said 'huh?' when she said that. She also singles out a little boy who has literally just turned 3 and automatically stands up when his mum comes in rather than waiting to have his name said. She 'punishes' him by making his mum wait by the door and he sit back down until everyone else has gone.
All this seems kind of small and petty but I was so shocked at her doing this so blatantly to me that it made me concerned about what she's like when parents aren't around.
Do I do anything or just accept that there will always be some tougher teachers kids have to contend with?
TIA!
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any advice on dealing with a 'grumpy' teacher?
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imaginaryfriend · 21/10/2006 18:29
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