Hi
One month ago my child (just 3) started at a local nursery after loads of pre prep and lasted 3 mornings before I pulled them out. Day 1 (I was there) was OK, an hour of play. Day 2 left for half an hour, returned to hysterical child crying so hard they couldn't breathe (has never ever cried like this before). Day 3 picked up at end of morning session only to discover they'd been crying all morning, nursery hadn't called me as requested, they'd said I was shopping and too busy to collect (seemed quite proud of this ) and poor love had cried so hard they'd vomited.
I left a bright, sunny, gregarious child and collected a little one who has since shown following behaviours...
-daytime wetting (been dry for ages)
-night time waking (often with screaming/ shouting)
-serious sep anxiety (eg always been daddy's shadow now my shadow and really needy)
-tears and panic attacks about returning
-attention seeking behaviour.
Provision and care obviously nowhere near good enough to leave them in and 1 month later only just starting to get confidence back.
My question is this - what now? DP very keen for them to attend preschool, I also want social element as although I'm a SAHM at the moment I can't provide the same social experience.... Feel a bit lost as to next steps/ how long to leave it/ how to help regain lost confidence etc. Any thoughts appreciated. Thanks.
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samalulu · 31/08/2013 23:00
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