I'd like to know how much other people's premmies were affected by their birth in relation to hitting developmental milestones. The reason I ask is that DS, although seemingly fine, is definitely behind even his adjusted age peers in gross motor skills. He's 13 actual/11 adjusted months and is only just starting to sit by himself. He's always been strong in his legs, and has pushed up on them from the time he should have been born, or before, but to date he has never rolled over, or crawled, hates being on his tummy still, and as I say is only just beginning to sit unaided, and that is generally with him leaning forwards a bit rather than straight backed. Now that he is starting to do it, I'm relaxing a bit, but I have been quite worried that there might be something undiagnosed wrong. He was born at 31+4 weeks and was on SCBU for five weeks, was on CPAP for 12 days but never fully ventilated, was vag birth, only things wrong were jaundice for a bit and anaemia of prematurity, as the red book puts it! He weighed 4lb2oz.
In terms of other skills, he has always been very vocal (and how!) and his fine motor skills are great. He has no problem picking up food for example, including things like peas, and has done that for quite a long time. The sitting thing has worried me because he tends to keep his head turned to the right more than straight, but medics have assured me everything's ok on that front, although I'm not certain they are right. However, that's probably another issue.
I don't know how much this could be genetic, as I don't know about DP's development milestones because his mum's dead, and his dad is useless at that sort of thing. I was an early walker and talker (walked at 10 months so definitely sitting before that) - but then I'm a girl . My mum said that she doesn't think me or my two sisters ever crawled.
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Callieco · 08/02/2008 20:33
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