Hi All,
Well, our DS arrived at 33+3 and spent 10 days in SCBU. I expressed during that time but have not had huge amounts of milk and this doesn't seem to be improving. In SCBU he then had a combination of whatever I'd expressed and FF either through his NGT or as he got stronger a bottle with me also putting him to the breast.
We brought him home at 35 weeks (last sunday) and since then I've really struggled with BFing him.
Currently I BF him and then he has a bottle top up. But, he takes over 35 mins to feed on each boob meaning the BF alone can take up to 1hr 30 mins. He then also generally has a bottle top up - if I don't give him a topup he is hungry again after 20 mins and won't settle. He is quicker on the bottle but total feeding time inc winding and settling down can often be 2hrs. Now this is ok in the daytime but I'm starting to struggle with it at night.
I'm also not sure what he's getting from my breast - his poo is the dark greeny colour of FF and although he can suckle quite strongly I don't really see him suckling and swallowing in the same way he does on the bottle.
I have had more conflicting advice from people at SCBU (not dissing them at all though, they are amazing people) and from the HV than you can shake a stick at and I'm really confused as to what to do now. I was given Nipple shields by SCBU because DS was prem and finding it difficult to latch and because I have flat nipples. The HV seems to think they are the devil incarnate and basically blamed any and all issues on the fact I am using them but he won't latch on without them - at least not at this stage.
I don't just want to FF him but I'm not sure how much longer I can cope with the length of the BF/bottle feeds. So my thoughts were as follows:
- Just persevere with the BF/bottle top ups and hope that it improves over time
- Express and either feed pure Expressed breast milk if enough or mix with FF and feed through a bottle.
I'm sort of leaning towards the second option at the moment but I don't really know what the pro's and con's are. Am really confused and emotional too which doesn't help.
Any thoughts from people on here would be really gratefully received as I just don't know what to do for the best anymore
Have also posted in the breastfeeding/bottle feeding section too.
thanks,