Of a prem baby (28 weeker) I often feel like I don't quite belong in the same group as other mothers, who spend hours discussing their labour, those first few weeks with their newborn, how soon their dcs sat up/crawled/ walked etc.. and even nearly 3 years later I still feel as though I've 'missed out' on a lot of the major milestones of becoming a mother: getting to my due date, ante-natal classes, the nervousness and excitement of waiting to go into labour, labour itself, 'giving birth' -I had an emergency c-section-, holding my baby after giving birth, naming her, being the first to feed her, change her etc etc.
Obviously at the time I only cared about dd getting better and growing, but these feelings have crept up on me over time.
I would be interested to know if other people feel the same way as me or if I should have moved on from this by now?
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Evasmum12 · 16/08/2012 10:13
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