DS was born at 34wks weighing 4 lb 5. He's now 9 months old and has been following/just under the bottom centile for ages. We know he's small for his age, but twice this weekend we've had complete strangers complimenting him at first then they ask how old he is. When I told them they both reacted with shock bordering on horror at "how tiny he is, doesn't he eat?" and " my baby is 6 month, was 5lb born and is bigger than yours". Then all but accused me of starving him and my milk not being good enough.
Basically I'm sick of people and their negativity regarding his size. What doesn't help matters is the fact he's not a great eater of solids - we have good days and days where he eats nothing- and the fact he's just had gastroenteritis so has lost some weight too. He didn't have a good start in life -we lost his twin brother at 34 weeks and had to have a c section. He was on Scbu for 3 weeks trying to get feeding established and temp control sorted.
I'm getting upset by this now as this does keep hapening, and am wondering if any of you with premies had to put up with this, and did your DC start to catch up in terms of size?
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ipswichwitch · 15/07/2012 20:33
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