Hello all,
I need some advice, especially from women who have given birth before. My parents are elderly and struggle to get around much. I live in London and they live in Norfolk - so a fair bit away. I would dearly love them to come down to London immediately when my daughter is born and enjoy her first few days. This they can do via train - no problem.
But their lack of mobility means I am reluctant to book them into a hotel and rely on taxis to get to and from my home. This leaves the option of having them stay for a week or more in my house. They do not know anyone else they can stay with. This seems fine to me but I am nervous because I may get stressed out with them being around 24/7 while I may want to spend long periods alone bonding with my baby and husband - just the three of us.
My in laws also live far away but they are healthy and mobile enough to make their own living arrangements so they can pop in and out but leave us when we need to be left.
If I asked my parents to come down a week or so after the baby is born then I may hurt them and also it will hurt me. Once they are here, I wouldn't have to do anything for them because inside the house my mother especially is happy cooking and organising things (my father, though has early, very mild dementia).
Am I stressing out for nothing? What is the likelihood of me wanting to keep visitors at the minimum as I bond with my baby? Will it all get too much having my parents living with us 24/7 in the first 2 weeks?
Sorry for long post.
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Orissiah · 26/03/2008 11:56
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