I only have 1 week and 2 days until im past my 'danger' zone and...........

[iliketosleep]

im shitting myself

[Lcy]

Thinking of you ILTS! Its a horrid time but you will get there xxx

[iliketosleep]

thanks lcy how are you?

[Lcy]

Im ok - looking forward to getting my scan on Saturday - and hoping i see a healthy heartbeat

[kd73]

i have 1st scan booked on Friday. Dreading it

[madmouse]

Here is rooting for all three of you! I suspect that at least some of you have had a previous mc? That must be so worrying, I worried enough without it! I was convinced they would tell me I was not actually pregnant. Hoping for three bouncy beanies.

[iliketosleep]

i had one at 10+1, i am 9 weeks tomorrow andi havent got a date for a scan yet im just waiting for the bleeding

[Lcy]

Have you got symptoms ILTS?

KD73 - i am also dreading the results of the scan but looking forward to knowing one way or another what is happening. GOOD LUCK x

Thanks madmouse - we have all had mc's around the same time but hoping for better luck with these beans

[Jackstini]

Hi Lcy & ILTS - I can remember being on mc threads with you in August/Sept.
Just wanted to wish you both lots of luck - I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you - you too kd73

[Lcy]

Hi jackstini - how are you? x

[Jackstini]

Not bad Lcy - I caught again at the end of September but lost again in November. Will just keep trying. Will come ver onto the ttc after mc threads soon I think. I see Just Jules is pg again too

[sweetkitty]

Fingers crossed for you all, I have recently been there done that having been on the August mc thread with you all.

I'm 13 weeks with this one now and the relief is amazing I actually feel like I will have a baby at the end of this pregnancy. It's hard to describe but the last 8 or so weeks were so hard I hardly talked about the baby or even thought about it. I had a scan at 8 weeks which showed a heartbeat but then I had bleeding at 10 weeks and all the feelings came back, EPAS were too busy to scan me so I had to wait 2 weeks then when I was told I wouldn't get a scan until 16 weeks I told a few white lies and got a scan and everythind is fine.

I know it's a worrying time but once you are past it, it's great.

[Lcy]

Sorry to hear that. Things arent going to well for me in this pregnancy either - lots of bleeding. I will look out for you on the ttc after mc thread (i still lurk). Hopefully you will have some good news soon.

Yes great news about Jules!

[Lcy]

What a nightmare Sweetkitty - but such good news - im really hoping i get to 12 weeks!

[sweetkitty]

I know Lcy a complete nightmare now I hope I can start to enjoy this last pregnancy.

Best of luck too I have had 4 pregnancies, 2 had bleeding (one really heavy) one ended in mc and only one had no bleeding at all. Some women just bleed in pregnancy but everything turns out fine.

[Lcy]

Its a crap after having a mc. i want to be able to moan about feeling tired and look at buggies and dream about my little baby - but i dont even let myself think that this pregnancy will end in a baby because it was so emotionally painful when i lost my last pregnancy

[cricri]

Fingers crossed for you ILTS (and you too Lcy). It must be a really difficult time for you at the moment - I'm sure I'll feel the same when I get that BFP. But the odds are in your favour - recurrent mc is very rare.
SK so pleased to hear about your scan results. Hopefully you can start to relax a bit now and start looking forward to having a baby. It's a shame mc does this to us...
Jackstini good to hear from you and do come and join us on the ttc boards when you feel ready.

[Lcy]

Hi cricri - hope you get your BFP soon x

[sweetkitty]

I do feel blessed that I had the 2 DDs before the mc so I was completely naive and thought that BFP = baby. I feel this pregnancy has been tarnished by all the worry I have had having had the mc. I told DP yesterday that not a day goes past that I don't think about the baby we lost and that I always know how far along I would have been, he seemed shocked. I think mc changes a bit of you forever.

Hopefully for all of us though we will have another LO in our arms soon.

[cricri]

I also meant to say sorry to hear that you had had another mc Jackstini
I know what you mean SK - I worry about another mc and I'm not even pg again yet. Just have to keep positive though.

[iliketosleep]

i try to look on the bright side that my brothers dp had a m/c same time as me and got caught 8 days!!! after. she is now 17-18 weeks pg

took me 8 weeks!!!! but i have midwife tomorrow so will get a scan date then im still scared though

[Lcy]

ILTS - You will probably feel better when you have a scan date. I try and think that even if this one mc's we will keep trying and have a successful pregnancy one day.

[Lcy]

It is lovely to speak to everyone again from the miscarriage boards - even if it is under these circumstances - all of your support really helped me get through my mc

[Lcy]

ILTS - do you have some nice things to look forward to whilst your waiting for scan. I have booked to go theatre, cinema, meet friends for dinner etc.. much more than i would usually do so i dont have to sit at home stressing. It seems to be working because i feel less crazy

[iliketosleep]

no lcy nothing like that just 3 noisy little ones ruining my house lol.....roll on next tuesday when they start back to school yay!

i want a scan 2 weeks tomorrow which would make me around 11 weeks, maybe even hold out for the full 3 weeks, or am i patient enough?? hmmmm i'll get back to you on that one....

all suggestions in the box please