... I moved to a new town in February. I've been pregnant the whole time we've been here (which defeated the object of moving somewhere with better nightlife and social options, but never mind). I have a couple of worky type friends here, but that's it. My close friends are 40 minutes away, as are my family. My partner is sort of pushing me into making friends. He makes friends easily, which recently has been helped by normal things like going to the pub with people. Obviously I can't do that in quite the same way right now. When the baby is out I'll play hockey again, I'll go to gym classes properly etc.
We've done nct, and I've been to aquanatal with the other women, two of whom I would like outside of the baby in common thing, but the actual bit of 'making friends' just feels so forced and awkward.
I guess my question is, how important is it to make friends while I'm still pregnant? I'm much happier alone than boyfriend is, and also my close mates aren't far away. I'm tired, I don't feel like 'me', I just don't really want to feel panicked about finding friends right now. There'll be lots of more natural options once I'm out and about with a baby right?
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ohthegoats · 01/08/2014 08:46
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