Ugh.
My pregnancy anxiety is flaring up again. Anyone else get this? This time it's to do with counting kicks and movement.
I was doing so well. I was following my MW and consultant's guidelines for monitoring closely without freaking out, and had the count the kicks wristband. Using their website as a good sensible guide as they kind of run the whole movement monitoring thing. Then I read online how much advice seems to vary about what 'reduced movement' is and some people don't count movement after they've eaten (which is when mine is most active) in case it's just wind...
E.g. today I have had roughly the same number of flurries of movement as usual (about 7 by now) - I tend to count a cluster of small kicks/wriggles or 2 or 3 big ones as 'one'.
But all I can think of is "but what if one of those was wind?" or "Are you sure you felt that?" (I did! And my belly flipping wobbled) or "OMG when did I last feel movement?!" (like 20 minutes ago, quite normal).
Today I'm obsessing trying to compare the ratio of wriggles to kicks (which both NHS and Count The Kicks says is irrelvant- deliberate obvious movement is deliberate movement). I spend most of my time on my left side rubbing my belly baby must be sick of it and just want a nap it's impinging on my life.
Totally obsessed that I am too lax and this is endangering my baby.
Don't want to admit this is anxious behaviour because I keep thinking I will go to far the other way and cause a problem.
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squizita · 31/07/2014 14:56
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