Im due in the first week of December and have always said Id prefer to work up to as close as the birth as possible so that I can use more of my mat leave to spend with the baby.
I know however that this isnt always realistic for a variety of years.
I just dont know how Im going to feel at that point. Im only approaching 22 weeks now and although I feel rubbish most of the time I can still function in work and its not yet become a chore to go into the office. I also have the option of working from home which helps.
Id hate to finish a month early only to have a late baby and be pottering around for 6 weeks - Im usually quite active and get easily bored) but at the same time have people saying it was nice to get that time to themselves to relax before everything changes.
Id love to take a year off but thats not realistic so want to maximize time with baby. Im very lucky that I get 6 months full pay plus I accrue all my holidays so I should be able to get about 7 7 months at full pay and if we can save properly & I get a decent bonus I can probably manage about 9 months before wed start to struggle (unfortunately just bought a new house so mortgage has more than doubled otherwise I would have managed longer)
So whats the norm? Is it completely unrealistic to think I could work to mid/end November?
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kitkat321 · 29/07/2014 16:15
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