Soz if its in the wrong place but, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and my older brother cannot shut up about this baby being disabled or downs, as far as we know she's perfect and from day one I wasn't going to have the nuchal test done as both me and midwife cannot be sure whn I concieved as my periods are everywhere and I couldn't give a monkeys if my daughter is disabled downs etc, but this is a daily subject for my brother which I see most days, he keeps asking first in early days if there was a problem would I abort (absolutly not it took us long enough to cocieve and we were told that I couldn't naturally) and now he's turned to saying adoption is best if I can't cope, tbh I dnt care what he thinks I've told him hundreds of times his reply is it doesn't matter anyway I doubt I'll bond with her I prefer your son and he's my mate yes my ds sees uncle a lot but that hurts. Not sure what reply I'm after but just need a rant. My mum was surprised I didntg have the nuchal test as I did with son I'm older woman and problems are a high factor but it doesn't bother me or the rest of the family
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