I am 8+4 and ive been really ill for 4 weeks or so, bladder infections, sickness, tiredness. Because of this Ive not left the house and stayed mostly in bed.
My Dh is insisting we wait until after the 12 scan. We found out yesterday that it would be at least 4-5 weeks away.
My mum thinks Im ignoring her, But I just cant put a game face on and pretend Im ok. She wants to go shopping, she wants me to help decorate, she wants me to make her soft furnishings (curtains/custions/pelmits) Ive tried to put her off but she has def' got the hump with me and Im waiting for either her or my dad to call and rant about what a bad daughter I am, cant I see they need help. For the record they would always help us out, no question which makes me feel terrible.
How do I deal with this?? I just cant face going out. To make matters worse I hate going to her house as she smokes heavily and Id just retch.
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whiteblossom · 30/01/2014 13:37
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